My Secret Sex Life

Who am I? Well for the purpose of this blog I’d like to go by the name “Lady” and we’ll call my husband “Athlete”. We don’t fall under the stereotypical image of what most assume a swinger is like. In fact most swingers are the furthest thing from what you see in the movies.

To the world outside of the lifestyle, we are both successful business professionals. My husband and I are very shy until we get to know someone. I’m often described by others as the innocent girl next door. *laughs* We really are good people, helping make the world a better place. Further, I have a very corky goofy side, which somehow makes me more memorizing to others. My smile brings people in, but they stay for something else; that maybe anything from my intellect, my heart, to my clever comedic personality.

Athlete is a balance of being the perfect man’s man and acting metro. Sports, girls, and technology he’s all over it. Yet, he’s a true gentleman who will sit down and watch a good chick flick with me. He’s the guy you need to say Thank you too for holding your door open! He’s the guy who will make sure a stranger is doing ok. He’s very smart and witty and is captivating when he tells a story. I admire his strong will and the passion he shows in every aspect of his life.

On this blog Lady or Athlete will be sharing our experiences and feelings on the lifestyle. We have been participating in this lifestyle for approximately 2 years. We play sparingly in our down time. Often, we form friendships with other couples and will play again.

Despite what most would imagine from this lifestyle I wouldn’t classify myself as slut. My female readers, chances are that I’ve slept with fewer men than you have! Hold up one hand, do you have enough fingers to count every man you’ve been with? I do! The men outside of Athlete that I’ve slept with have been mistakes, but it’s a learning curve. I hope the next time I let a man have me that far it’s with someone worthy of such a prize. Sure other men are merely toys to me (no emotion), but I’m still friends with them.

This is probably why I’m more interested in the woman in this lifestyle. In my opinion woman just make better lovers! Have I been with women who aren’t up to par? More often that I’d like, but at least there are a couple of girls who are memorable. It started out as a very hesitant bi curiosity that developed in to my favorite part of the group. The body of a woman is much more beautiful than a man’s. The contours of a woman’s body… softer skin, more to touch, and a better understanding of our own anatomy. It can be very intense!

Until Next Time,
Lady